My Reminder TO YOU!

Sometimes we have to let go. Whether it’s people, a job, or a place. Sometimes it’s absolutely necessary for us to grow

I feel like many of us hold onto things, or people, who treat us so poorly…… hoping that something will change. We want these things so badly that we will sacrifice our own happiness…and the expense is for someone or something else to be happy or to be successful. But. When we do that…we are quite literally setting ourselves up for: pain…failure…sadness…stress…frustrations, and more. Furthermore…when situations and people prove to not care about you…or how you feel…is there really a purpose anymore? Is there really a purpose to keep trying to prove anything other than yourself? I mean…why would you want to fight for a position in your job, or in someone’s life. A job that sees value in you, will treat you well without having to beg. A person who values you, will too, treat you well without you having to beg for it. So. Why do we hold onto things…or to people who do not want us in the same way that we want them?

We all deserve love, and respect. As well as happiness and success. We all deserve what we give. If you give 10% into the world and into your relationships…then that’s probably the same amount that will be given back to you. Sometimes worse than that. Sometimes you’ll get lucky once in a while, and get a little more than you give. Eventually though, that “little bit extra” you get, will be taken away because the person who gave you extra…will see how much you give and will not give you extra “just because”. Especially when they’ve given you extra time to see if things will change. That’s because these jobs, or people know what they deserve.

Now, When we give 100% into our lives, our relationships, our situations, we’ll more than likely get that as well. But sometimes we don’t. When we don’t though, that does not mean that we should settle for less than we are giving or less than we deserve. We should settle for what we are worth. Because why would we settle for anything less?

What does that mean though? Well. That’s where we set standards for ourselves. We recognize what we deserve, and what we do not deserve. We create goals for ourselves. We give everything we have, until we reach these goals. If the people, or the jobs that we have don’t see the amount of work that we are putting into reach our goals, then why would we stick around? If they’re using us…hurting us…not seeing our value…we SHOULD move on. Right?

So why are we scared of change? Everyone always says “if you don’t like something…then change it!” Which is exactly true. We should. If we want to grow…whether it be financially, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, or in our relationships…sometimes it is absolutely necessary to move on. Look for change. A new job. Focus on ourselves. Our goals. We deserve happiness. All of us. We deserve goodness, and we deserve equality. We deserve what we give. People and jobs should work just as hard to keep us, just as much as we work to keep them in our lives.

If what we are giving is not being reciprocated back to us, then we need to let go of all the things holding us back…or we need to let go of the things that are trying to destroy us. We deserve so much more and we need to remember who we are, and what we deserve sometimes.

My purpose in this blog today is to remind you of who you are, and to remind you that you are worth so much. Do. Not. Settle. For anything less than what you are and what you deserve. ❤ remember who you are…remember what you deserve…remember your goals…! 💪

Happiest Tuesday!

Until next time! 😊

High-five. Hugs. Positive vibes!